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The SHAPE Framework: How to Support Someone Without Losing Yourself relationships shape Feb 17, 2026

Most relationship damage doesn’t happen because we don’t care.

It happens because we care — and we panic.

We want to help.
We want to fix it.
We want the tension to go away.

So we rush.

We give ad...

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Getting to Zero: The State That Makes Self-Leadership Possible getting to zero integrity compass Feb 08, 2026

Most personal growth advice focuses on action.

Do this habit.
Say the right words.
Set better boundaries.
Think more positively.

But action only works when it’s coming from the right state.

That’s ...

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A Practical Model for Improving Any Relationship monthly challenge relationships Feb 01, 2026

Relationship habits are some of the hardest habits to change.

They’re tied to identity.

To safety.

To how we learned to survive connection.

We all want the same things:

  • to feel connected
  • to fe
  • ...
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Falling Off the Habit Wagon (and How to Get Back On) integrity compass purpose Jan 25, 2026

We’re almost at the end of January.

So let me ask you—gently, honestly:

How are you doing with your intentions for this year?

Not your goals on paper.

Not the version of you from January 1st.

But...

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Deep Work in the Age of AI ai deep work purpose Jan 12, 2026

How I Use AI to Go Deeper — Not Shallower — During Meaningful Work

One of the most reliable habits I’ve ever built is a daily Deep Work block.

One uninterrupted hour.

On something meaningful.

A pa...

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The Power of Your Top 3 Words: How to Set a Clear, Calm Compass for the Year Ahead app4that everyday heroes purpose Jan 08, 2026

Every January, we’re told to set goals.

More goals. Bigger goals. Smarter goals.

But most people don’t struggle because they lack goals.

They struggle because they lack orientation.

They don’t nee...

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Why Your SMART Goals Aren’t Working app4that habit theory 2.0 purpose Jan 04, 2026

For years, we’ve been told that the key to change is setting SMART goals — specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound. And on paper, that advice makes sense.

In fact, many people are ...

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What Goals Are Worth Chasing — and Why Should We Even Bother? drift vs design habit theory 2.0 integrity compass monthly challenge purpose Jan 01, 2026

January has a strange energy.

On one hand, it’s full of optimism: fresh starts, new plans, clean calendars.

On the other, it’s heavy with fatigue: I’ve tried this before … will this year really be d...

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2025 Year in Review: From Stability to Sustainability year in review Dec 29, 2025

At the start of 2025, my life looked solid from the outside — but strained underneath.

I was working full-time, using that stability to support a passion project I deeply believed in: helping people ...

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Habits Coach App Update: Clarity, Alignment, and Momentum app4that habit theory 2.0 habits Dec 20, 2025

This release is a big one.

Not because it adds more stuff — but because it makes everything you already do in the app clearer, more aligned, and easier to sustain.

At a high level, this update focus...

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Sleeping Your Way Back Into Alignment: How the Integrity Compass Transforms Your Nights — and Your Days integrity compass monthly challenge sleep Dec 01, 2025

Most people think sleep is just a night-time problem.

But here’s the truth:

Sleep is a priority problem.

Sleep is a state problem.

Sleep is an alignment problem.

And when you fix those, sleep bec...

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The Integrity Compass: How to Find Your Way Back When Life Pulls You Off Course app4that drift vs design habit theory 2.0 integrity compass Nov 12, 2025

We all drift.

Sometimes it’s small — you meant to write, but you scrolled. You meant to be patient, but you snapped.

You meant to work on what matters, but you got pulled into everyone else’s priori...

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